Me:Hey,So u just had a bath..(me thinkin to myself.....jeez of all the oafest things to say..but then again I was not really looking forward to us meetin..so there!)
She:"come on in the kitchen"
Me:why?? "I mean we cud just sit in the hall"
She:Introduces me to her mom..well We are going to have lunch shortly!
Me: huh?..why did you not tell me before..I already had lunch..but I guess there is always room for more ;-)
She:Anyways I think you can give your diet a rest for a day na..Laughs loudly !
Me:well easy for you to say..you've gone all slim and trim coz of ur aerobics
Me:Not in the least coz now men don't have more of u to love...heeheh
Me: unfortunately..not men many wud agree to that though.
She:laughs again...gives me a pat on the back.."o common men are not that bad"
She:After forcing me to eat all the food and chocos and mangoes like am some kinda fooddump or somethin and me saying 'NO' like a zillion times..shit I dont think that gurl understandz the meaning of 'STOP my intestines are about to explode if u feed me any further..i have not lived in a desert for crisake'!!
and then bombards me with the junior dreaded question ;-)..do you have a boyfriend???
Me:coz I don't feel like havin one..and you seem to be having a major problem with that
She:No I don't. Dont't get upset..Was jus asking
Me:So What if I did..??
She:Gosh..Do u wanna have some ice-cream?? (clearly avoiding my question)
Me:So Do 'YOU' have a boyfriend??
She: Coyly grinning.......noooo I don't..but am gettin a lot of proposals
Me: oh..poor you then
She: why?? Don't you wanna get married someday?
Me:Thinkin to my self.....oh no there's the senior major dreaded question to which I answer a flat and empatic 'NO'.
Me : I said no as in am not interested ...Do we really have to continue this convo
She:No..but let me tell you about this guy who loved me from childhood and blah blah blah ( the blah blah is because I shut my brains off at that point ..am tired of people talkin bout this kinda stuff to me.I'm bored k...And I did not come here to spend an afternoon to talk bout stuff that I pretty much don't give a crap about.Jeez the only reason am here is on your insistence that we should meet up and have fun..well I ain't havin even an inch of fun here!!)
She:Why don't you talk. All this while am the only one talkin..hello u listening to me??
Me: yeah well...didn't someone say the its the wise men that listen...so am listening (or rather pretending to listen)..And besides I'd rather talk bout stuff I enjoy talkin on a higher level..(but I Don't suppose you wud know that now wud you?)
and well the rest of the afternoon was pretty much spent with me figuring out ways to get outta that place and back to my cave)
This was an interestin a convo(as interestin as bein forced to listening a nail hit a hammer for 3 hrs..ohh the torture!! )I had with my 10 std classes partner.......who had big plans of catchin up and doin stuff which by the way i was not very keen on...but she looked like an excited 5 yr old when she saw me so i had to say yes.(k am not that mean ;-)).
Anywaz I jus wanna say that I only keep in touch with people I think are worthy of keepin in touch be it through mail, msn, phone or personally...the rest of them sadly will be ignored and I don't care if these people become dragons the next day and breathe fire down my neck...I don't give a damn..my force shield is always handy.
I also know We need to be nice to everyone...but Some people We only use as ladders to get through in some point of time in our lives...but the rest we need and truly care for as long as we live. I only bother about such people whom I value..there are very few..like that..but the bond remains..even if we part.
How I wish I were here...*sigh*
"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
— Anais Nin
I'm do not give complimetns very often ..only occasionally when I genuinely feel that someone or something deserves it..otherwise pretty much majority of the time you might find urself fishing for one ..so don't be bummed even if I don't give it ..it simply might be a case of my not noticing ;-)