Invite your audience carefully. Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your life who need to be loved from a distance.
It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of, or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not going anywhere relationships or friendships.
You cannot change people. They are who they are, and your time is better spent on someone who does not need change. Observe the relationships around you! Pay close attention! Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?When you leave certain people, do you feel better, or do you feel worse?
Which ones always have drama or don't understand, know or appreciate you? The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row, and who should definitely be moved to the balcony of your life.
Remember that the people whom we hang with will have an impact on both our lives and our income. And so, we must be careful to choose the people we hang out with, as well as the information which we feed our mind.
We should not share our dreams with negative people, nor feed them with negative thoughts.
Took this post from Clover
The e-mail makes so much sense.Its also very true that by lettin go of the things that disturb you, you can achieve a lot.Its better to have a circle of close friends whom u can trust and depend upon.I wrote a small post like that in one of my previous entries.Some people you cherish for you entire life . Some people We only use as ladders to get through in some point of time in our lives...but the rest we need and truly care for as long as we live. I only bother about such people whom I value..there are very few..like that..but the bond remains..even if we part.
Its better to not change people....no ones perfect.Accpet them for who they are and what they mean to you.If not then do not waste your time trying to compromise on things that make u happy.
Fate joins a lot of lives together.everyone will say and do things that leave an imprint on our lives
Bottomline:The front row is for exlusive members only.But as we go on we meet so many different people,it will be to judge and decide...I say do not limit you membership.....You jus never know :-)
Next week he will be takin the lone walk in a whole new world
NY is where my dearest buddy HARRY
will start his life now leaving all of us behind :-(. No more bloggin,no more chatting,no more mails etc. Somewhere in the virtual world his writngs are up n a wall invisible to everyones eyes.I think he must have been the only guy whom I have 'allowed' to pull my leg so much.I can also safely say that he will do it again and I like one dope will still fall for it.Am pretty sure that myself and his whole theatre of emm friends ( 90% gurlz ;-)) will sorely miss him.Yup what more can I say he has that charisma over us female species.....he's dangerous!!!
I guess there will be no Technomerlin
"technomerlin" on the top in my link section after saturday.
He said he'll mail me when the blue moon shines..In Harry world I know what that means..
(ps. am sure hes gonna think....my God Candy why all this emotion....am not dead am just goin to another land thats all!!)
Well you see goodbyes have alwayz been hard for me.I wish I could call and him and wish him .But I can't bring myself to it.Normally when am on the phone 50%of the time am laughin and crakin digs.....but not this time....coz this time I wud not know what to say.Its best this way. And also coz am a sentimental fool and I tend to get attached to ppl whom I like very easily.
I bet all of you are thinkin well..whats the biggie he'll be back in India after 3 years.But you see in most likelyhood in three years time I won't be here....
This one is for you..
Separate Lives -Phil Collins
You called me from the room in your hotel
All full of romance for someone that you met
And telling me how sorry you were, leaving so soon
And that you miss me sometimes when you’re alone in your room
Do I feel lonely too?
You have no right to ask me how I feel
You have no right to speak to me so kind
We can’t go on just holding on to time
Now that we’re living separate lives
Well I held on to let you go
And if you lost your love for me, well you never let it show
There was no way to compromise
So now we’re living (living)
Ooh, it’s so typical, love leads to isolation
So you build that wall (build that wall)
Yes, you build that wall (build that wall)
And you make it stronger
Well you have no right to ask me how I feel
You have no right to speak to me so kind
Some day I might (I might) find myself looking in your eyes
But for now, we’ll go on living separate lives
Yes for now, we’ll go on living separate lives
Yes Harry you have 'no right to ask me how I feel' :'-(
I love you as my dear friend :-)
All the best...its not yet the end.